My W actually believes that the kids will respect her for abandoning the family! Talk about fogged-out thinking there! Guilt does not work to bring the WAS around (at least in my sitch), but I do think that it helps, and as Puppy said, it is a better to be on record that you were open and truthful during while the stuff was hitting the fan.

Me40
WAW37
M18 T20
S18,14 D13
EA Bomb 6/08
Sep 11/20/08
Ret 08/09
Sep/Filed 11/09

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