Don't feel bad, Sunshine. I certainly was not the first one on this board to run over to myspace to look at her picture, and then comment to you about her. What's that all about? Oh, I get it. There are different rules here for Kimmie.
Sunshine, you are not the only one here who has ever snooped, acted a fool, etc. In fact, there are posters on this forum who have acted far worse than you, so again, please don't feel bad. You have been traumatized by the suddenness of your D and it will take time to get over this. And there are posters here who are still stuck after three years, four years....well, you get the idea. It will matter until it doesn't.
If you are the least bit inclined, read my thread in Surviving Divorce. I was wigged out and couldn't see that there really were good things waiting for me once I GAL.
You could start a thread over there and see how it goes because the posters there are D'd, like you and me. It might give you a different tack to take and you can always still post in MLC too.
