You are still way too wrapped up in the drama, YOU need to detach from all the drama. Stop looking and talking about the ow, let it go, let him go, you will not heal until you get a life of your own.You are divorced , you are not married to him any longer.As far as venting, people can read you like a book, they can see that you have not begun to detach. Detach, get a life for YOU. Have you seen a counselor.It can help, alot.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
