The adventure continues--part 3

[AFWAW]

Yeah, good luck with that! When they are in this mindset, they can justify their behavior without any problem at all! It's almost as if they are...well, selfish! They are really only thinking about themselves, and nothing you say will change that mindset.

Yep, you are correct. The wife has already stated that she wants to be selfish and she knows that it is wrong but she doesn't care at this point. That was about a month ago. It seems like time away has helped some but she is still slow to initiate contact. We'll see if it gets better.