you HAVE helped many folks heal their marriages. You HAVE been a lifeline to soooooooooo many
Ditto!!! Puppy you disagreed with something on my thread but let me tell you that I am such a stronger person and have a lot more self respect because of you and your advice to others. No matter what my situation turns out I will be a better person because of you and others like you on these boards!
As far as the debt. In my state you can remove names from accounts and then sign an agreement that all debt after a certain date is the sole responsibilty of the other person.
Kenn,
Yeah, I guess I busted your ballz pretty good. I didn't realize until you said something just now that I never went back to see how you responded (I did now), so I didn't mean to blow you off. Sometimes I post all over the place, and if it's not a regular thread that I visit, I forget to circle back. As you can tell, I loathe affairs, and I wear that on my sleeve. It wasn't long after I started posting on this forum, having come over from the Sex-Starved Marriage board, that one day I just looked at thread after thread, and page after page, of nothing but heartache and adultery and pain (it might have actually been the MarriageBuilders message board, I can't remember) . . .
. . . and I just WEPT. I mean, I sobbed. It was like everyone else's pain just became my own, and I saw the selfishness, the vanity, the lust, the entitlement, and the utter DECEIT of it all. I think it was that day that God put it upon my heart to try to help people here.
Anyway, thanks for your nice note. I do wish you well in your sitch, and I'll try to stop by.
