Sister..

Stop it..stop it now..read nothing into his response.

If you allow anyone here to put you the coaster with assumptions/guesses/hypothesis then i swear I'll drive up there before Saturday to personally deliver a 2x4..

in the words of my bro from Memphis...this "is what it is"

stop trying to read into, expect or think about what he may be doing, feeling, thinking..

no expectations, no assumptions...common sense and calm should come over you...and let him see the woman you have become...