Does your W understand that her little girl is being damaged by this? Does she understand that SHE is the adult in her R with her daughter, and that it is her duty to try to connect with her daughter every day?
It concerns me to hear that your daughter is "visibly upset". By the time the pain is visible, there have already been several levels of damage done. Your W has to be an unfaltering role model as she navigates her way through her decisions about your M.
This experience will affect your daughter for the rest of her life and will likely take its toll on her adult Rs.
Please give your W a wake up call on this before more damage is done. There is no excuse for failing that child.
