I wrote to you on your thread, but wanted to thank you here too. I appreciate your input very much. You are always able to see things so clearly.
My H is currently sick (a cold) and I've found myself feeling resentful (I sound like a real jerk )) since I've been sick over and over again and have had no help. I haven't said any of this and won't. I have prayed about all the digs, and last night the thought came to me (thank you God) "How would you want to be treated when you aren't feeling well?" And that's how I treated my H - with tenderness. Seems I've got some more work to do in the forgiveness department. Trying not to feel like I'm the b*&%$ of the century.
Thinking of all of you and hoping you're doing well.
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
)) since I've been sick over and over again and have had no help. I haven't said any of this and won't. I have prayed about all the digs, and last night the thought came to me (thank you God) "How would you want to be treated when you aren't feeling well?" And that's how I treated my H - with tenderness. Seems I've got some more work to do in the forgiveness department. Trying not to feel like I'm the b*&%$ of the century. 
