Thanks for your response. I will take your advice and put in into action. Regarding my daughters phone I gave my point of view which was that I did not feel comfortable with her having one, partly because I think at 11 she is too young to be having a mobile. Secondly, and if I am being really honest with myself it is more the fact I feel hurt and suspicious that my wife does not want me calling her mobile. My wife was out shopping yesterday which was when she called me about the phone and I disagreed. If I now about turn it looks like I cannot make a decision and stick to it which has been a problem in the past. A 180 here would be for me to stick to my guns on this one. What do you think?
I did ask her to get me a smoothie maker and a couple of dvd's which were waiting for me when I went around to the house this morning, so I suppose she's not totally heartless.
J, why do you think my wife is detaching from me to the point of communication by text, and the body of the text is like she is sending it to a colleague, somebody she does not know, anybody but her stbx?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
