Also with H in MLC(I think!)and I`m doing 180 also. I don`t get that 180 asks us to abandon responsibility for everything. I`m still doing the bulk of the housework(just letting certain things slide and not getting upset about it)
I`m no longer taking care of his meals or laundry.
And he`s still looking after his end of the finances-we`ve split the bills in a pretty adhoc fashion when we first got married. (This bit is a bit tricky as he has deliberately let bills run overdue just to taunt me but I ignored the taunt and eventually he paid up anyway.)
Isn`t doing 180 really just being about not engaging the game-not letting him pull your strings get you upset and draw you into a row whereby he can blame you for making him unhappy?
Or maybe I`ve just got to go back to Divorce Remedy and read that chapter all over again...
