WAW1

[markhaving probs]

I have a question that I would like answering. Now that my wife and I are seperated, she only wants to communicate via text messages, and if you look at my last post she is getting a mobile for my daughter so that I do not have to talk to her at all. I am concerned that she is completely pulling away and detaching from me, what is happening to our relationship here, as it appears she does not want any contact. I need to clear some rubbish from the house, I asked what time would be convenient and she told me a time and said it did not matter as she would not be there anyway. What is going on here?

Also, we need to discuss finances and in the past we have always ended up arguing because we cannot agree. I have been very helpful in giving her a large sum of money that legally she was not entitled to but morally was hers as she brought the money into the marriage. I do not want to send our relationship back to square one again, though I don't think I have come off square one yet. Without trying to argue but also not to become a doormat what is the best way to approach a definate volatile situation?