Well finally heard from h late today. H was suppose to be at the house by 2pm which I had no expecation for. I had to rely on s20 to help afterschool and the evening, since I had to work a night shift.
H was pissed that I filed the taxes without him. He said I had a choice. I said yes, I had a choice to file or not file. I sent him several texts asking him if he had any ideas before I file separately. I waited until 11am today before filing. No response!
Now he had to pay, since we didn't file together. I know he is angry with me, but I had no idea if he would show today or not. I had to work a night shift today and knew I wouldn't be able to complete the taxes when I got home after 10pm. I am not taking this burden on. He makes it out like I am bitch and did this on purpose. I did what I needed to do. Sorry, if it didn't fit his plan. Honor your committments and we wouldn't have had this issue.
He left abruptly when I arrived home and said goodbye. No walking him to the door or anything.
He will need to make changes for his life if that is what he chooses. I can't carry the burden for both of us.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"