Well finally heard from h late today. H was suppose to be at the house by 2pm which I had no expecation for. I had to rely on s20 to help afterschool and the evening, since I had to work a night shift.

H was pissed that I filed the taxes without him. He said I had a choice. I said yes, I had a choice to file or not file. I sent him several texts asking him if he had any ideas before I file separately. I waited until 11am today before filing. No response!

Now he had to pay, since we didn't file together. I know he is angry with me, but I had no idea if he would show today or not. I had to work a night shift today and knew I wouldn't be able to complete the taxes when I got home after 10pm. I am not taking this burden on. He makes it out like I am bitch and did this on purpose. I did what I needed to do. Sorry, if it didn't fit his plan. Honor your committments and we wouldn't have had this issue.

He left abruptly when I arrived home and said goodbye. No walking him to the door or anything.

He will need to make changes for his life if that is what he chooses. I can't carry the burden for both of us.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"