Lee - I think we cross-posted. You have a good point. (Why can all of you guys see so clearly, and I can't?) Maybe I should look at what my H and I have been through as a good thing too. Hopefully b/c of this, our M will be stronger than it was. I know I have been blessed during this time as well. Thank you for opening up the possilbilities for me to think about.


Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche