The leaving her alone is one of the hardest parts. It's seem contrary to what you think you should do. But, I've seen it work for folks on here. So, the sooner you can figure out how to do it, the better.
The best advice you'll get is about taking care of you. Get busy doing things for you. I promise you that will help more than anything...If you can figure out things to do that matter to you, you can spend at least some time doing something other than dwelling on the situation. And, as you get busy doing things, you will have less time to bother her. That will only improve your sitch.
Spend time reading about other people's situations here on the board. I got my best advice from posts on others people's threads. It also helps to get support from folks by posting on their thread. If you post and offer insight or support, they'll stop by your thread and do the same, etc.
It's gonna be a long ride, but you will pull through it even if your marriage doesn't survive...I'm proof of that!
I'm rooting for you!
Hugs! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
