Imalright - Thanks for the reminder to be patient. I need to hear that every day. Trying to read through your thread. Not enough computer time! Hope you are doing well today.
Jackie - You, as usual, have such great points. I tend to see things from the negative perspective - fearful me . But I think you're right in your interpretation about my H acting as if nothing has happened. Thank you for your clarity. Viewing my H in this way makes sense, but goes against my notion that my H couldn't possibly love me like he says he does, etc. Also, you are right about me not voicing my wishes or needs to him. This thought actually came to me yesterday in the midst of my anger, but I chased it away. Thank you for bringing it back into my line of vision.
Feeling a bit guilty now for nit-picking. I am truly very grateful to God that things are as they are, although I may not have sounded like it earlier. Think I'm a little fearful about things - just don't want to screw up. A little eggshell walking, I suppose.
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
. But I think you're right in your interpretation about my H acting as if nothing has happened. Thank you for your clarity. Viewing my H in this way makes sense, but goes against my notion that my H couldn't possibly love me like he says he does, etc. Also, you are right about me not voicing my wishes or needs to him. This thought actually came to me yesterday in the midst of my anger, but I chased it away. Thank you for bringing it back into my line of vision.
