Oh I'm sure. I mean, I wasn't out of the counseling more than 10 minutes before she called today. I think she expected me to back off after the appointment. Oh well...didn't happen. One little exchange was interesting though. I ended up asking her what she wanted and needed. She said she couldn't concentrate on her needs right now...that she needed to make sure the ones she cared about, D3 and I, were happy. I responded with..."you think we're happy with the current situation?" I told her she couldn't control my nor D3's happiness. She could influence it to an extent. That if she wanted to work on our R instead of heading down the fast lane to single life it had the potential to make me happier. I also said that D3, while being a happy child in general and happy when she's around either one of us is happiest when we are together. W had no response for that. At least I think it made her think about what she had said and what reality was. Maybe not but you know, you have to hope that it does sometimes.
