I hear you Puppy. I don't feel I need to tell her anymore. I've been pretty clear about what I'm going to do. I told her I was going to schedule time for us to go to the mediator and get everything taken care of. Told her that didn't mean I was going to or not going to file for D right away \, I was going to evaluate how I felt at that time and do what I felt was right for D3 and me. Right now I have no idea what I am going to do at that moment. A lot will depend on where W and I are at at that point in time and how I feel about it. And you are right...it does feel good to work on me and do things based on MY feelings and needs and not hers.
