I agree with your IC. Good for you, DC. You can't control HER, but you CAN control what your own boundaries of personal integrity are, and you will feel SO much better in the process.
btw, the next time she asks you "what are you going to do?", know that you don't have to tell her. In fact, DON'T. Just say "Not sure yet... right now, I'm working on me, and it feels kinda good."
