LNL, I wonder if he is having a MLC, My H seriously acted like he was at 31. I agree with the previous post. The decisions and his actions arent things that he will be proud of when he looks back on this.
Honestly I think that neither way is easy. I think that having the failed M hanging over their heads, and the guilt that goes with it are going to be tough to get over. Dont think that hes going to just walk away scott-free, hes going to be getting over this for a long time. And you, who are fighting for your M, won't have those things on your conscience.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...