I have a question for you. Why did you drive by the OW's house? What are you hoping to gain? This time he wasn't there but next time he may be and how will you feel? You have to let go.
I know it's not easy as I think my W is with a new OM. He's an old high school friend of hers and they've been spending a lot of time together. She says they are just friends and I have no proof so it is what it is. As a friend has told me, I will let him deal with Monster.
