Find a way to stop focusing on your xh and the ow. Focus on what you have control over...you and your kids.

What goes on now between him and the ow is none of your business. Now, explain to me just why you need to be checking our his "my space" page? This man no longer owes you anything in the way of an explanation as to what he is doing w/his life and w/whom. Renee, you may or may not realize it, but you are obsessed w/him and what he's doing and have picked up a number of stalking techniques that could raise some eyebrows if you continue down this road and your xh gets a wild hair up his @ss about you.

STOP FOCUSING ON THEM! STOP TRYING TO FIGURE THEM OUT! Who cares if she's happy flashing her new diamond around at this point...it will get old in no time at all. Who cares if her time is up....she's the one that has to punch his time clock, for all indications. All you need to care about is YOU and YOUR CHILDERN.

FOCUS ON YOU!