Tell me about it. There are days I don't know which way to go with my sitch. Now though I am moving forward. I have reached a place where I have to be true to myself and D3. So I have put the ball in W's court...decision is hers. Meanwhile I will be setting up an appointment with a mediator to start working on the paperwork and figuring out the finances, co-parenting, visitation stuff so if I have to go the route none of us wants to it will be as smooth as possible and I will know everything to expect. It's not what I want but what I need to be true to my feelings. So I can expect more good and bad days as I go through this but ultimately it is what needs to be done and I really hope that the W will really consider what she is doing before things get too far.