lol Kerry. Sunshine, don't look. Just don't do it. I looked in my situation, but I won't do it anymore. I had to get some evidence for my L in order to get the order to keep the girl away from my kids. I won't be making it a habit. Being immature lets her get pleasure from your pain. You know mine is the same way. Don't let her see your pain. Do not engage in it. Boy do I know it is easier said than done!!!!
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"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher