That is my goal. I remember a couple of weeks ago ex saying something like "the court won't know any different unless one of tattles to them. They don't care about this trivial stuff." I think he only wants to make changes because he is moving and doesn't want it to be a hassel for him.
Granted if I ever move away that will be another can of beans we will have to contend with. Right now I am just talking about what we know is going on.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory