Holding onto Hope

[In Limbo]

I need some advice. I was just looking over our credit card bill and found that in a period of 8 days H spent over $300 at a bar he hangs out at with friends that used to include OW (he says not now). One of the charges was even for the same date that we had dinner. Since he worked that day, I'm guessing he must have gone there after work before we had dinner later. I want to ask him about it for obvious reasons (was her with OW and why did he insenuate he had come directly from work if he hadn't) but also because I consider that excessive spending and we have not divided our finances. Granted, H makes a lot more than me but how would he feel if I went out and spent that kind of money in one week at he spa or something? He keeps saying he is telling me everything but will not give me access to the computer (he has a private login with the admin rights and would not even give it to me so that I could load tax software). That indicates to me that he is hiding something. I need advice on this because I know I'm emotional about it right now and will be seeing H tonight as he is coming to the house to work on taxes. Does anyone have advice?