One of my friends (a current WAW) suggested that the next time she sends the mixed/confusing message (ie crawling into bed this morning), I should say "I'm confused. You are saying you are leaving me and want a divorce. However when you do things like this I think that there are feelings there. Its very confusing"

Any thoughts?

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13