I know, and I appreciate the sentiment, WP. I just have to make sure I'm not operating from a position of "Well, that BENEFITS HER, so it CAN'T be the right thing to do!"
Instead, I have to continue to operate from my old standby of "What is the RIGHT THING TO DO? What would God Himself have me do, if He were standing right here in front of me?", and to put my kids first, me second and my wife last in this. Otherwise, there might be something that benefits my boys, and is also "the right thing to do," but I stubbornly refuse to do it/agree to it because it somehow benefits my wife.
