Wow, sorry to hear that and how strange/awful? Sounds like H's family is much like my ex's family.. dont like to 'make a fuss'. Just stay out of it, what will be will be, emotionally repressed. MY family on the other hand.. would have ALL been on the phone.. dissecting, discussing, berating, trying to help (too much, lol!). Families are wierd.. well, everyone else but your own always is anyway.
Its interesting he called yuo a couple of times tonight (he doesnt normally?) so he must have been upset about it, even if he said its up to them, I'm staying out of it?
I agree thuogh, I dont see any/many healthy R's around me either...
