looks like sticking to formal emails is the best, talking to them other than that is like putting your face in front of an exhaust pipe. The best of luck on your house paperwork, I hope all goes well.

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feel connected to him in a quiet positive way. That it comes out when he's nice to me.

I hate this feeling, I pray daily it goes away -- when we talk about the kids and we are in agreement and stuff it feels...ugh...nice...then, I have to remind myself that he is living with his gf and how things really are, that we aren't a happy couple talking about our kids. I dont' love him, but there are remnants there from years of being M that make me feel that way I guess.

Hijack over, I just had to say that since you pinned point the feeling I've been having when I talk to him.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.