I usually am careful about the words I use to show that what I'm doing is for me and about me. This was just the first time she opened up and made any comment about things that 'got us here'.
Sometimes I feel like there are so many things I'm working on or keeping notes for future use that it's hard to keep track of it all. Am I still going towards my goals? Have my goals changed as my perspective changes? Am I effective in my changes/progress, or am I just staying busy and developing an alternate set of lifestyle habits that both do and do not fit with a future R (with W or not)?
Feeling a little overwhelmed at the moment about my 'plan of action'. :-/