Well, Michelle, the first time she had an affair with her H's friend was 13 years ago. That's how I met her. H brought her at my place to hide her till things calmed down.
I told him I know and he has this attitude of "told them to calm down and think and just do as they want, dont want to take sides". I said it is not bad/mean to tell it as it is to the persons you love and if your sister indeed had another affair, someone should slap her around a bit. Making it easy on her the first time, brought her here probably. She got away once. Twice the same mistake is a bit much. He kept saying "they they they" and I said "listen, it's not they, it's her screwing around, he is been telling me he was trying to approach her since last summer". H was hesitant and said "yes, yes, she cant be justified this time, he really loves her".
WOW!!! What a disappointment!! I would expect my brother to sit me down, as we say, and really give it to me. This is no game... Where are the principles,the ideals? Everything changes to our liking and our convinience. He didndt even mention the affair to me until I did. What a f@cked up mentality in their home...