Oh, and "P.S." on the legal stuff:

Not only would I have to pay HER atty's fees, but in Florida, ours is considered a "long-term marriage," and I'm staring down the barrel at PERMANENT alimony, without question. Unless I can get her to agree otherwise.

I'm offering "rehabilitative" (term) alimony, for a period of 10 years, in an amount TBD.

So again, if this goes the "contested", get-the-attorneys-involved route, I stand to do a LOT worse.

Puppy