I like getting your goals down now, before he gets there. That will give you the opportunity to stop and think, is this getting me closer to my goals? I really think that simple thought can save us grief in when we react negatively. Sometimes we do need to confront, but when the iron is cold, when we can calmly discuss things.
Think about what you want for this next stage. How are you going to go about getting it?
He likes you strong and confident, keep that up! You can do it.