My H just called. He said my FiL is ok, that he tells him that whatever will be will be, trying to "soothe" him. Funny thing is I think H believes that. Maybe he (H) will get affected by the sitch, who knows...?
Of course, if my SiL really had an affair, makes things clear why she kept away from me all this time. Ironically, she was the first one I told my suspicions about H having an affair...
The only thing I feel is I want to give my kids the "right attitude" about life and relationships. Because to me, it is evident, my FiL's approah of life to "always look for the easy way out" and my MiL's lack of expression of emotions had a lot to do with what's happening to their kids and sadly to their grandkids... K
