XW will not find out from me...i am a pretty private person. D8 will probably tell her when we have some type of activity together. However, we both agreed that when that happens, we will introduce ourselves to our respective kids as friends and there will be no public signs of affection. call me old fashioned but i prefer it this way for a while. What is nice is that she agrees 100%. What is nice is that it appears that we have some of the same values.
