I am glad things are going so well, Mockers. And I would go with the tide for now if I were you. Well, I did, when H first came home. For the first month or so, no R talks just enjoying each other's company and trying to appreciate what we had.

What I have found more difficult is actually to still my very busy mind. I see suspicious things in the most stupid developments. You may want to have a look at my threads: hopefully you will not commit my mistakes The substance of my thread is I have to work on myself!

So, enjoy your new honeymoon now. You will have time to discuss the R later. And when weird thought start to surface (because they will) breath deeply, shut up and vent in the board, not at your H. Been there, done that, got all the T-shirts

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"