hey gypsy....i know what you mean about the spouse being nice. i have those same feelings on occasion. however, as fltc stated so eloquently, it takes time and these folks are NOT the same people we fell in love with. i always like to add...their loss and better now than later....
you have a lot to offer Gyps...i have said that before.....we can not let one person (no matter how much we loved them) continue to affect us.
