Baby steps is definitely right. Don't doubt for one minute that your H doesn't notice the changes; he is just processing this. He sees you growing and becoming more comfortable in your sitch and with your kids. He is still going to vacillate in how he deals with you: be ready for that!
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09