SLH,Your M is so different from mine. My H doesn't reveal any of his feelings to me usually and I have no idea what he is thinking. He just shuts up and sulk. But you and your H just goes all out. I don't know which is better but I have a hunch that any communication is better than none. However, it sounds like you are trying so hard to get him to admit that he wants a D. Is that what you really want? You keep pushing for R talk and he just doesn't want to make a commitment to you. I don't know. I can tell that he is controlling you and pulling and pushing you constantly. Is that good for you?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
