Thanks for your quick response. tried to aquaint myself with your sitch but this forum didn`t allow me do that for some reason. Have had the same trouble trying to pm people. Hopefully that situation will improve as I don`t like to put too much detail out there.
Sorry to read about your situation. I do hope you`re able to focus on your own goals. I`ve found Susan Jeffers, Louse Hay and Malenaie Beattie`s books hugely useful to get me to a point of minding me and not jumping to H`s tune.
I know I`ve to give this a LOT of time and patience. And I`m just trying now to turn that into a positive for me;giving me a lot of time and patience and love. Maybe I`ll find my answers there.
For me cutting and running would lead to a whole new path of woes with the kids, money etc. I`m just not ready to take that route yet. Plus, H is horrified at the thought of it. Just as much as he`s horrified at the thought of us reconciling.
Meanwhile I`m working on me every day-just for me. and hey, maybe I`m gonna have to remarket myself some day soon too. I want to be ready for that!
Hope you`re finding Divorce Remedy useful!
Thanks so much again for your reply, appreciate any insights!
