That is just so difficult. I know I would love to have my wife just touch me like that but then my mind would race when the next day she wouldn't even talk to me or something like that.

Once again for your own sanity I do think you need to tell her look I love you BUT I really can't have this right now it's too hard. My guess is she'll get pi$$ed but that's her problem, she's setting boundaries for herself you should too.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."