You are right Burt. It is her loss and I am still letting her control me which is what keeps bringing me back down.

I would like some input on one thing. When she left the house to move to her apartment, she took most of her stuff, but there is still quite a bit left here. I really want to go through the house and box up the rest of her things for a couple of reasons. First, it is constant reminders of her to me and it hurts to see her things around. Secondly, she made the decision to move out and get a fresh start to see what she wants. I feel that by me doing this that it wouold show both her and myself that I am taking control of my own life.

I appreciate any feedback. I don't want to act in spite, but I have to keep moving forward the best that I can.


M 30
WAW 29
T 15
M 5
ILYBNILWY 3/8/09
Separated 3/14/09

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