YR I hope your D is feeling better today. My mum has to have an operation soon to remove a gland from her breast. It's not the big C (thankfully but like you I worry incessantly)
Sunshine I totally understand where you are coming from as my H did the same as yours. However we are still not D and in my case this all happened just four months after leaving me (he met her two weeks later). It's not pleasant and I hope you are not in for the very bumpy ride that I've had.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
