You know I look back to when all this started and I remember thinking there was no way I could go more than 3 days without talking to my xh. 3 days was a lifetime. Now I am up to a month and going! I WILL BE OK.


Renee-

This will be your new mantra. As you live it, it will become more and more natural for you. It's called detachment. And remember and believe the last sentence. YOU WILL BE OK.

Might seem a far-stretch now, but you will find with each and everyday you will learn how much you've grown and spread your wings. How you've learned to depend more on yourself and less on your xh to get through each day, month, year. You will gain enermous strength from your faith/belief in a higher power...and less on yourself and what you've mistakenly (so far) believed YOU could do to turn the situation around.

Is it too late to improve your situation with xh? I don't believe too much in the word 'never'. Never is a loooooong time.
But for right now, worry about your own life, your own wants and needs, your goals and dreams. Because your marriage with your xh is no more. You're divorced. If you ever reconciled, it would be a new relationship, and hopefully a better one than before.

As others have told you, all you can do and should be doing, is praying for your H. Without him knowing it, you'll be giving him the greatest gift that anyone could give him... And you will also be doing yourself a favor by letting go, and letting God handle/deal with the situation at hand.

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible