I have read your postings; i am in such a similar position to you. My H of 6 yrs and R of 10 walked out on me nearly 3 months ago; and has been living with OW. (development manager of his company). we are not at divorce stage yet, but he is pushing separation agreement. Like you, my H has accused me of treating him badly for the last 5-6 years, and he says enough is enough; he doesnt want the marriage anymore. like you, I have tried everything; moved my life around but to no avail; he wants to be with OW. We have a D7. I want to believe that there is hope, but like you have made mistakes along the way (last night I blew up at him and he stormed out). Probably like your sitch, he is blank and unemotional. He is switched off and is in another life; I life that he feels is better than the one with me is. I think that all we can do is move forward and work on ourselves. We can not control our S, they are making decisions for their life. It hurts like hell but we have to detach and let them travel on their journey. would love to hear more about your sitch. Hang on in there; I know how much you are hurting. It is very hard. But love never fails; in the end
