FWIW Pup I wasn't intentionally bashing Mrs. Puppy.
I echo Pollyanna's sentiments above, there just are not any winners in this scenario. I know that whatever you do, you will do it with the strength and dignity that you have shown throughout your situation. You will always keep what is best for your kids in the forefront of your mind and actions and in the end will know that you did the right thing for them.
The love and prayers still stand...always. S&S
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option