I wanted to know if my D had gone through but did not want to ask W incase it hadn't, so I called the Dallas Court house and asked them what the status is. They said my case was still opened which meant W had not filed the final D decree.
Instead of calling W, call the court house which I guess would be in Arlington for you? I'm not sure which. But they will have a status and be able to tell you if you are being served. This way you don't have to discuss with W.
Just a suggestion if you really want to know without encouraging W if she has not done it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...