CMNM where can I read about your sitch? Are you d? I know what you mean abour re-explaining. I use to do this ALOT. Finally I learned that nothing I could say would be right. I promise I could say HI HOW ARE YOU TODAY and he would go off thinking I was getting in his business.lol I never dreamed this stuff could happen to a person. They are really messed up. Sometimes I wonder if my xh is in MLC, but then the things he says and does makes me believe that he is. Whether he is or not though I am learning slowly to go on with my life.