You could be speaking in a soft voice while setting butterflies free on a warm spring day and a MLCer is still going to take offense to it.
In a not so nice nutshell, you need to mind your business and leave your ex alone for the entirety of your foreseeable future. I know things happened fast for you and it is hard to comprehend but he's not your business anymore. Your opinions are irrelevant and so is the fact his actions have offended and hurt you. By throwing that in his face, you are virtually ensuring that he will never regret leaving.
Renee, I understand your hurt and I believe you anger is righteous but you need to pray for the grace to keep your mouth shut.
I know I have said things in the past that reinforces his behavior and reason for leaving. I also know that statement I made may have also ensured him, but in all honestly is it too late to try and correct what has happened and what I have said. I mean regardless, is he ever going to think differently of me? I guess what I am trying to say is....is it too late to keep my mouth shut for any future we possibly could have? OR have I instilled too much in his already messed up mind?
