Optimist - way to go on keeping quiet . It is hard, but keep showing your H your confident, upbeat calm side and don't waste energy thinking about the OW. She's not worth the effort. Sounds like you are having alot of good contact with your H. Keep up the good work.
I want to check out that CD - it sounds great!
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche